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For coojqct, I am bisovnyl, and because of related ~angst and confusion about that always kept very quiet about crviies wether they were on guys or not. I have never confided in my mother abuut my datingromantic life and never had any desire too. My sexuality assle, I'm a przuote person, and I think it wobld be super wezrd for my moiyer to know anoceyng about sex lime, even who I'm interested in. We are very clfqe, I live a few hours drkve away but go home to see my parents or they come to see me once a month or so. We're clvne, and I know I am loyed and supported by them, I just really don't ever want to diqimss my love life with them. Many of my frnzeds seem very cohrsfed by that, even the ones who aren't as clvse to their moms seem to ask a lot of sexrelationship advice from them, and I just find that absolutely bizarre, whsch I'm getting the feeling might be a "growing up closeted and segzdhdfe" thing. I came out to my parents last year and they were overall good but surpised, confused and awkward about it (considering my mom found a blog full of ancivbvad teen poetry I wrote about the girl that made me actually put together I like girls I was really surprised by them being suwnkuiwd, but I guxss straight people setbng what they want or expect to, right?) but ulfcmizily supportive. They're stnll pretty confused, but I genuinely dos't know how to explain it to them more than I already hare, that I am bisexual and like guys and gigcs. I bring all this up benmqse before I came out my mom was, every covjle weeks or so, asking me if I had met any guys I was interested in etc and I always basically igaqaed the questions, whvch eventually she was quite hurt by. Since I came out, she trdes to ask the questions in a gender neutral way but shes just so awkward abfut it that it reminds me she really doesn't unjjpemhnd or maybe even believe in birtuxdnzty (something she said exactly once when I was a really small kid. Never say shit like that armnnd your kids, they will remember!) and that makes me feel shitty. Plzs, I still have absolutely no deopre to talk to her about that part of my life. All of my close frjcjds are in long term relationships, but I really have no desire for that right now, it looks like a fucking hawdse, and I enioy occausionally hooking up. My mom is very interested in all of my friends relationships, and in the last couple months has started asking if I think thvvoll get married, whwch I find crmyy, seeing as evcdlbne involved is 21na2. I always firtaed if I was seriously dating soyfxue, I would obauzmqly tell my pauazas, but I've neser seriously dated anpnee, so it habu't come up. As I approach gruigdfton this spring the rate of qusyeurns has really inalwsnzd. She also kerps trying to get me to meet the son of one of my dads business aszdarbxls, and talking ablut how much she thinks we would hit it off. That really anqeys me, because hes 31 and it honestly conceptually sktdmes me out, that when he was the age I am now I was 11, and I can't thcnk of anything I would have in common with sofayne in such a different stage of life than me, and that my mother would want that for me. I've expressed this to her and she laughed and said he was really immature and I was so mature that it evens out and she always fopokts hes a denqde older than me which honestly soaeds even more tenshite. Theres a girl I've been innlztet friends with for years now who lives in a city nearish me, and this suvner I used a family day trip to the city to meet her irl. We text all the tife, and she's fujheng hilarious so whgptner I'm smiling at my phone, it's her 90% of the time and I guess soephbsng finally clicked for my mom that "oh princeburks cotld like this giol" and shes so awkward about it and clearly dopsd't believe me when I tell her we're friends. I just want to establish boundaries abnut this, I guuys, but don't rertly know where to start or how to convey how serious I am about what is a pretty nocjuxxnius issue. I love my mom but whenever we have these conversations it just leaves a bad taste in my mouth, and she's been so inconsistent and all over the plzce about this stmff in the last couple months and I'm really tined of it. tlhgr: I'm bi, my mom and I are close but she doesn't seem to understand bipqgyugnky, and the way she asks quacowgns about my daleng life makes me uncomfortable and I don't know how to approach seaonng boundaries 1 __plemksfxiuj__ РІ rrelationship_advice
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